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Crossfitter. Dog Daddy. LGBTQ. Singaporean. 27 years old. Journaling some insights of my life while cherishing life in solitude. Writing is my catharsis.

Here’s my experience of adopting a rescue and the eventual change to purchasing a puppy.

Often times when we hear of adopting a dog, the likeliest possibilities are that the dog is (A) a mixed breed rescued stray dog or (B) an abandoned pure breed who was no longer cared for by its family and surrendered to the shelter. What that entails is these dogs put up for adoption would usually come with some form of baggage on them which takes time to overcome. Be it abandonment or fear of humans, it takes a person with some experience to care for these dogs.


Something I’d highly recommend to every couple out there.

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They say you’ll always remember that first trip you spent with your partner.


Warm-hearted, bold and leaves a good taste in my mouth

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Last week while swiping through Tinder, I made a match with a guy. The first question that was asked of me was, “How come you don’t have a boyfriend”. Not before long, the conversation became an interrogation of my past.


We all face this problem at some point in our lives, and it can be so hard for anyone to understand.

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There are two kinds of loneliness in this world.


When the lack of communication was the means to an end

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Modern-day dating for gay men is puzzling.


To all weightlifters out there, you should too

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Having experimented with all sorts of supplements and narrowing down to the select few that works for me, Creatine has become a crucial part of my supplement routine. I’ve been on creatine for almost a year now and I gotta admit that before starting out, I did have my doubts against its use due to my concerns of its potential effects.


But c’mon, don’t we all?

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I am a naturist. And I love being naked in places that allow me to be. “Free body culture” as the Germans call it, this love for nudity stems from the wonderful feeling of bringing oneself closer to nature. But don’t confuse that with being an exhibitionist — whose motivation is a desire to be seen and admired by others.


Here’s some tips I’ve learnt along the way.

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After years of regular gym trainings, I have come to an understanding of my fitness routine and ways to keep myself motivated.

1. Switch your phone to Do Not Disturb

We all bring our phones to the gym because the phone has become a part of us now. I use it to stream music on my earphones…


How you handle your youth will affect your mid-life prime

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We gay men go through some of the most tumultuous years in our 20s. From having to overcome the hurdle of coming out, to learning the ropes of sustaining a gay relationship from scratch, it is crucial during this period to find ourselves amid the turbulent phase of our youth.

Learn to have healthy relationships

Building a relationship with someone based on emotional affection rather than solely physical attraction is something we gays need to work on. …


It’s time to change things up a little

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I have always hated the military buzzcut.

Hans Chan

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